Saturday, May 7, 2011

Birthday thoughts

My second thought today has been reflecting on my precious family. Yes, we've just had the O'Hearon birthdays, and from the mother's point of view....I'm counting my blessings all day long....especially my fabulous four....so here are some more pictures of pictures....

My first born, and my favorite son!!! Born April 26th,1977.  Oh what joy Michael has brought to Bill and I. He was a fun little boy, always ready to help, play legos ( still does), and read books together ( remember the Indian in the Cupboard) He excelled in everything that he tried..especially on the soccer field and basketball courts. He is well read, and has many interesting ideas about life. He served the Lord for two years in France, and now teaches French in the South shore of NS....he is a devoted husband to Keah and a terrific Dad to adorable Finley and Emmy!
April 26th 1979....we welcomed Kathy to the clan. A second birthday gift for Michael ( the novelty of the gift wore off a bit through the years!!LOL) It did not wear off for this mother....a daughter...a happy, bubbly,laughing little girl. She captured the hearts of us all with her mischievous grin, and playfulness. She loved her dolls, and trying to keep up with her big brother. She has always been surrounded by many friends, and her personality invites people to want to be with her. She is talented with many areas of her life...from the piano, to the kitchen,to sports, to crafts...but above all as the mother of five beautiful children. She has worked hard to be a stay at home mom and I am soooooo deeply proud of the mom that she is.

May 6th 1983 to our delight, we welcomed our second beautiful daughter to this world. Michael momentarily mourned, and Kathy cheered to have a little sister. Karen gave us more sports to attend,  Summer Fun club for kiddies, retail wisdom, and then last but not least...another school teacher was born!! Karen has always had a passion to work with children, and even though the job market is tough she has been making a strong impression in many local schools as a substitute teacher. This mom is very proud of her creativeness, organizational skills, and her very very caring nature. She has friends around the globe, and is best friends with her siblings and a special auntie to many!!

May 2nd.1989 was the grand finale...and grand she is. Laura completed our little family....and we couldn't have been more excited to welcome her to our home. She was an adored little sister and ready to hit the soccer field in her first few weeks ( in the carriage!!) She followed her siblings to both soccer and basketball, and added volleyball for good measure. She loves life and fills each day to the brim ( and overflow sometimes) She has brought many special friends to our home, and treasures her relationships dearly. She chose a different vocation in the medical field of xray technology, and has excelled her efforts. She will graduate soon, and then will take her talents to western Canada. She loves to travel, so this move doesn't surprise many. We will miss her so much....but we will work hard to get her back to NS.
She is a thoughtful, caring, sometimes crazy daughter. We love her and we are so glad that she is ours.

My fabulous four.Love them all dearly.
What more could a mother need!!!

Happy Mother's day Mom

I am feeling a very strong urgency to write and I have three thoughts on my mind....First thought...my parents...especially my Mom ( it is mother's day tomorrow) so this first post is for her. Lacking the smarts to scan and get a super picture, but still wanting one..I took two pictures to post to this story.


                                              
 
  This picture is one of the last dances my parents had together. My father died three months later. They were such wonderful people, and deeply in love. My mother missed my dad every day until the day that she died, two years later.

This is a favorite picture of my mom. She usually wore glasses, but had removed them in this picture to bob for apples with her grandchildren. I can almost hear her laughing when I look at this photo.

On Aug.31.2000 as I sat by my mother, in the peace of her nursing home room, I wrote a special entry in my journal. It had been a very difficult year for our family, and most especially for mother. Without going into all the medical aspects of her decline....I wrote that day....
"I still can't believe that this is how her life has ended. Her body is slowly closing down, kidneys barely producing, no body movements, conversation, or acknowledgements. Yesterday she ceased swallowing.While the time with her and my brothers and sisters is very tender and special, I now find myself longing for her to go home to Heavenly Father. Sometimes it is because of exhaustion, but more often it just feels so helpless to see her laying there barely alive."

I went on to say....
  " I was thinking about Mom this morning and reflecting on things I remember most about her.
( I then proceeded to make a long list....
Going to the grocery store
Price is Right
Wheel of fortune
Esquire for chowder
Hair appointments at Sears
Camping at Whispering Winds
Soccer and Basketball games
Christmas mornings
Fixing the flowers at the Graveyard
Planting in her yard
Never letting me pay for things
Attending church together
Walking through the Temple together
Playing cribbage
Clam chowder calls
Shopping for Christmas gifts
Picking her up at Sears
Remembering catalogue numbers
Her special poem to me about being a good mother
Helping her with pets ( oh that Skipper)
Shovelling snow together
Doctor's appointments
Eating grapes
Sharing her with friends( everyone loved to hang out at our place)
Interview for my first teaching job
Visiting in my class
Walking to my house, and just showing up
Newfie poker with the kids
Taking care of Dad together
Spending time with grandchildren
looking at photo albums
Sorting out medications
Sharing books
Watching 'Who wants to be a millionaire, and Touched by an Angel'
Visiting with old friends and neighbors
House sitting for the Hatchers ( moving the ornaments)
Trying to find Eric Hann's ( did the sign really say Cape Breton...ooops)
Outdoor Nativity
Dinner at the Logans
Partners playing cribbage with Corwin and Vera
Walking in the Public Gardens
Lunch with Donna and Aunt Irene (Le Bistro)
Tending the African Violets
Filling bird feeders
Building a new shed ( leaky at times)
Going to the movies
Ice cream at Avery's( and lots of other places)
Getting those Christmas cards off
Talks with Aunt Annie,Edith, Uncle Eric, and Aunt Mable
Attending funerals
Church suppers and sales
Father's Day lobster supper at All Saints in Bedford
Wheelchair walks
Trips to the Vets
Rice Krispie squares
Thanksgiving dinners
Easter brunch
Quiet talks
Gentle tears
Missing Dad
Driving to Bridgewater to see Glenn
Wedding showers, Baby showers
Minding my children ( what a big day it was for Laura when she could cross Connaught Ave to visit     nanny and go to Potties)
Coconut candies in the candy dishes ( mint chocolate too)
Checking on Aunt May ( oh that phone)
Checking in with Aunt Rene and Uncle George
Doing a 360 on the ice in that blue something, ford maybe, at the corner of Geo.Dauphinee and Peter Lowe ( why didn't I drive out Chebucto Rd)
Encouraging me to keep teaching ( oh the first days at Richmond)
..........................................................and on and on....I have  a post for each line written...

Sept.8.2000
Yesterday my mommy died. I had the choice blessing to be with her and I pray that I will never forget this great blessing. It was quick, it was peaceful. I knew the moment that she crossed the veil. I miss her so deeply already


That entry closed with this final thought....
     Mom, you were the best. My memories are precious and dear to me always. I will treasure you always. I know you are with Heavenly Father and I will see you again. How great will be that joy.
FAMILIES ARE FOREVER.

As I end this post I hope that I have given each of my children, and grandchildren precious memories too. Our families are the best friends of our lives and it is my hope and prayer, that we all realize this, overlook the imperfections, and treasure the gift of these people in our journeys here on earth. I love you Mom and dad. Thank you for being mine.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Take two....April...

Hello again...Last night I attempted a catchup post and after uploading a bunch of photos I lost the whole thing...the post did not even save itself as a few faithful bloggers thought that it might. ( appreciate your comments) so here is take two... My pictuures begin a week or so ago in Bridgewater. I have  visits to the south shore to lend support to my daughter-in-law Keah, Mike and the twins. It is also a step away from some other bedlam in my life...but above all a chance to watch little Emmy and Finley grow. I do like to feel needed and appreciated and in this household I feel both!
      The next few pictures are of the girls with books. I love to watch them interact with books at such a young age. They become so focused when books are pulled out. The first photo is extra special as Finley is listening to this book on her own. It was a gift from one of her special hospital nurses, Keltie...and both girls love to hear her voice. It was such a thoughtful gift.
They always touch the place where the voice comes from
Such a good story

Back home to my other special kiddies...isn't she beautiful
Jacob with his newest lego!!! WE LOVE LEGO
More book time with Dad.....they become so attentive to the books and the voice reading
Great interactions
Pat a cake anyone
These got out of order...sharing of the toys!!! LOL
practicing her claps
cupcake time...I finally got to a session with the master...JoLynne
these were mine
sorry about the bouncing order.....back to books
reading with her bling!!!
the great escape....Emmy leads the way after moving the hamper....
Back to egg decorating.....I really messed up the order
some of our special guests
A fun night decorating with the girls
My oldest granddaughter....can't believe how grown up she is becoming
Jake and Okayjah having giggle time
Family bruch with the youngings!!!
the brothers...grin!!
A memory from the past!!!
My sweet sisters
Trouble playing trouble!!
Dinner never arrived!What kind of brunch is this!!
One of the family tables...Eric waving
The little people tables
Sisters dining together
Cousins catching up

Happy times remembered
My oldest and youngest girls


The great egg hunt
Hugs with my big girls...they're so beautiful

So that's my photo flashback. I do love spending time with my family.I've also been having more sewing fun...working on a few projects. I've also been trying to improve my card making skills.
Laura finished her exams...all but the national one. She's been busy packing for her move ( I say her visit) to Calgary. I'm excited that she has a great job to go, and excited that she gets some independent experiences. I am not excited that it will be so far away. There that has been stated for the record.
We're also into another birthday season....tomorrow Mike turns 34, Kathy turns 32, and in a few days...May 2nd Laura turns 22, and Karen follows on the 6th turning 28. Happy wishes to them all!!!
May 18th Bill and I are taking the Nelson clan ( Kathy, Jeff and kiddies) to Disney. That should give me lots to blog about. Must post for now....and I'll try to improve this whole exercise for my memory!! Love and Peace

Saturday, April 23, 2011

I'm Back

But not for long.....I wrote a nice long story...posted photos and touched one button and lost it all!!!! I'll try again tomorrow...maybe....grrrrrrrrrrrr

Monday, April 11, 2011

It's a NEW day

Hello to friends and family who read my ramblings. It is indeed a new day, and I am grateful for it. Thanks to those who helped me through yesterday, I did punch it in the face!! Today has been good to me. I had an amazing swim...did my 1500m, and then water ran with my friend Jane for an extra twenty minutes. I then paid a visit to The Willowtree mender and left two of my damaged ornaments for his loving care. Then on to see Aunt May. to work through her to-do list. She is such a dear dear lady, and I love her. She always makes me glad that I visit, and I do love helping her!! After completing her errands I headed home to get going on my own list....laundry mainly, and some computer things. I found out that I won the card challenge for this week ( certainly not for my card abilities...good thing it's a lucky draw!!) I checked out some other blogs...and you should check Kathy's for a great giveaway! ( not sure how to make the link) SuperSeven....
Bill just stopped by and tried to massage my neck...I may need a chiropractor now. Anyway...laundry waits and the Fab Five are dropping by shortly....just wanted you to know that I survived!

Here's the link to Kathy's giveaway

http://jknelson.blogspot.com/2011/04/simply-on-board-baby-strap-giveaway.html

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Where Can I Turn

I've just returned from a week away with two friends. Sharon, Linda and I spent a week at Sharon's timeshare in Rockland Maine. We took all of our sewing gear and worked on a variety of projects, shopped at some great fabric/quilt shops, dropped down to Freeport, laughed, talked and had a great break from the race.
That's kind of what my life has become....a race....never ending, too fast, exhausting,confusing,demanding...and I feel like I will be the loser. Back home to others needing me, and sometimes I just feel like I have nothing left to give. That's my mood tonight. I've had Laura back down in a bad place and I can't seem to help her. Bill is missing my  messages to him, so we're heading two different directions. I just want to swear mailto:#$@#%^%$$#.   ......there that doesn't feel better.....but...

Back to last week...it was a great break. It helped me see myself better, and it did make me feel like I was good at something. I even lost another 2 lbs.!! Standing ovation for me.....that's an inside joke between Sharon, Linda and me. I do want to post some photos cause I took lots. Al;so congrats to Sharon on receiving her newest Granddaughter mid week....Freya was born to Adam and Corina. Pictures.....

                                                                 The three sisters!
                                                          My Bookcase Quilt
                                                                Reversable Apron
                                                           Peace and Love
                                                  Reversable Table Runners...mine is in the middle
                                                                     The other side
                                                          Happy times with Linda
                                                     and Sharon
                                               Our main room and kitchen in the background

View from the balcony

I know that I'm a pretty blessed lady. I have good friends, and many opportunities in my life. Why is it that the things that matter the most to me......just bring me down the most.
Sorry...not my best, most positive post.

I am grateful..really I am for......family, friends, food, safety, experiences,knowledge,truths, and the restored  gospel of Jesus Christ.
Jesus Christ is the answer.